Ben’s Corner

  • Love

    Love

    Celebrating our 56th anniversary and Mothers Day this past weekend has had me thinking a lot about love. I Corinthians 13:13 says that the greatest thing is love. God is

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  • A Rich Life

    A Rich Life

    We all want to lead happy, successful lives. But for parents, there comes a time when your priorities shift, and your most important goals start to involve setting your children

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  • God’s Ways

    God’s Ways

    What if… everything’s gonna be all right? Because God’s gonna work it out for you. Keep your head up! EVERY battle has an expiration date. EVERY storm eventually stops. EVERY

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  • Joy

    Joy

    You may remember that my word for the year is JOY!! When you think about it, most of what we do in our lives is with the aim of trying

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  • Who is in Control?

    Who is in Control?

    What kind of things stress you out and cause you to worry and be anxious? Do you get angry with people who say and do stupid things that cause hurt

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  • A Page in the Grand Book

    A Page in the Grand Book

    This is one of my favorite stories and I first heard it from Kenny years ago. For those of uswho try to pass judgment on life with only one day’s

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  • You Are Unique!

    You Are Unique!

    YOU ARE UNIQUE!Each and every one of us is born with unique traits and characteristics that help us shineand find our true calling. Learning to love ourselves for who/what we

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  •  Only Lessons

     Only Lessons

    I am regularly astonished at God’s ability to turn ugly mistakes into something beautiful inthe end. God has more than enough mercy for every mistake we’ll ever make. A part

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  • Fighting Loneliness

    Fighting Loneliness

    One of COVID-19’s harshest ironies: Just when we need each other more, we’re beingforced apart. We are urged to stay home and maintain social distancing to combat thespread of the

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  • Trust God

    Trust God

    God means for us to be where we are. God has led or allowed us to be in a situation andGod is sovereign. God is love. He didn’t put us

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  • Sacrifices For Us

    Sacrifices For Us

    We are social creatures. We depend on one another. We cannot achieve our goalswithout the help of others. Yet, others have their own agendas, goals, and interests. So,how can we

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  • Silence

    Silence

    It is in the silence we quiet the nonstop noise bantering in our heads that continually seeksan audience with us in our minds. There is nothing like the calmness of

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  • Use the CALM acronym

    Use the CALM acronym

    One of the best indicators of spiritual growth is that we remain calm in the face of crisis, adversity and danger. Panic is more contagious than calm. The more “news”

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  • Be An Encourager

    Be An Encourager

    I hope you are all doing well with your sta-cation! But, often we feel down and slumping in our life. At these times we need inspiration to free us from

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  • Encouragement 

    Encouragement 

    We all need encouragement right about now!We find ourselves in a sober moment and are not sure what to do next. Fear is rising in these uncertain times. Remember, it

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  • See The Magic

    See The Magic

    This simple short story helps us to remember that we are God’s treasure in clay. Too often we act as though people are nothing more than clay balls. “But we

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  • Make Everyday Count

    Make Everyday Count

    Have you ever noticed how some people come into our life and we know right away that they were meant to be there—to serve some sort of purpose, teach us

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  • Difficulties

    Difficulties

    Each of us faces difficulties from time to time. It’s a natural part of the cycle of life. Many of us become so focused on the problems we face that

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  • The Soul Train 

    The Soul Train 

    My very good friend, Milt Smith, always puts a smile on my face and in my heart! His response to my last note on “What is the best way to

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  • The Value of Love

    The Value of Love

    Personal values are those things we believe are the most important in our lives. Values exist, whether we recognize them or not. The only way to experience true joy and

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  • Give Happiness

    Give Happiness

    If you want to do one good thing in the world, the best thing you can do is give other people joy. Joy is not dependent upon outward circumstances. It

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  • 2020: Year of Joy

    2020: Year of Joy

    God not only shaped us uniquely, He planned every day of our life to support His shaping process. This means that nothing in our life is insignificant. God uses everything

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  • Our Perspective

    Our Perspective

    Remember the Principle of Separate Realities. The way I see things is not really how things are; it’s just my own perspective. The value of anyone or anything exists solely

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  • The Pearl Necklace

    The Pearl Necklace

    Have you ever felt down and depressed and decided to eat a yummy dessert or candy bar to feel better? Or go shopping for a new outfit? Or go drinking

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  • Courageous Empathy

    Courageous Empathy

    What is the best way to be there for someone when they are hurting or experiencing challenging times? How can we comfort them and ease their pain and suffering? This

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  • Be A Good Neighbor

    Be A Good Neighbor

    Shar and I just went to see the film It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood, starring Tom Hanks as Mister Rogers, the popular PBS show host and creator. “Hi

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  • Words of Encouragement

    Words of Encouragement

    Gary Chapman, in his book Love as a Way of Life, uses a vivid metaphor describing words as either ‘bullets or seeds.’ If we use our words as ‘bullets’ with

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  • Life is a Continuous Learning Experience

    Life is a Continuous Learning Experience

    Life is a continuous learning experience. Throughout our lives, we keep rising and falling, picking up important lessons along the way. Furthermore, there are many life lessons that we simply

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  • Gratitude

    Gratitude

    Some of the most memorable lessons in life come from stories. We are meaning-seeking creatures. Stories teach, whether the storyteller intends them to or not. A Native American proverb says,

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  • Leaving a Legacy

    Leaving a Legacy

    Albert Einstein reminded us, “You have to learn the rules of the game, and then you have to play better than anyone else.” Living an abundant and joyful life is

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